“suggested based on your recent activity”. Recommendation algorithms run the world. Based on your activity history, they tell companies to tell you what to read, eat, buy, listen to and watch. But those algorithms don’t have to tell you who to date.

If you feel that it’s time to break the pattern, time to change the narrative, here’s how to break the algorithm:

1. Ask yourself why you’re interested in such toxic partners

2. Dissect the problem, dig out its underlying causes and come to terms with your past mistakes

3. Change your familiar activity and browse a different breed

Because “people like you” are very clear about what they want, and end up attracting the right partner.

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